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Tuesday, October 19, 2010
excerpts from my latest book i am reading...
I believe that these excerpts tie into my consultations on sensual education and romance enhancement, after all, isn't that what romance enhancement is all about in certain cases, falling in love or falling in love again with your partner and rekindling the passion and romance you both once felt for one another?
Anyways, here goes....hope some of you find some helpful information in here and I can/will reccommend products to assist in various ways to correspond to each blog post I make with each excerpt.
"I want you to carefully consider the underlying assumptions that govern your attitudes toward marriage and love. Some may be false; some may be true. It is essential for you to determine which premises are correct, which are worth building on, and which concepts should be discarded because they are false and therefore unworkable, even potentially harmful."
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Daily Food For Thought
"If you put your mind to something you can achieve it."
But no one tells you how to put your mind to something so that you succeed.
Yes you can achieve anything if you instruct your mind and subconscious mind properly.
But if you don't know how to do this you'll end up
directing your subconscious mind to create more of
what you don't want - not something you want to do.
How can you stop creating what you don't want and get your mind and subconscious mind to actually work for you?
I'll show you... read on and enjoy
You probably don't regularly choose your thoughts,
or instruct your subconscious mind.
Instead, your mind and subconscious mind are probably working on autopilot - just doing what they want when they want with no clear instructions.
You're probably not even aware of the thoughts you have everyday, and you probably didn't choose the beliefs you hold.
As a result your mind is constantly sending the
wrong messages or wrong instructions to you subconscious mind. And that's how you end up failing or not getting what you want.
I know you want to be successful, wealthy and happy...
but do a thought checkup... and you'll find that you
probably have thoughts and beliefs that don't allow you
to be successful, wealthy, happy or enjoy the kind
of life you want.
If your mind is on autopilot (like most people) then
you're not actively choosing your thoughts and beliefs.
Instead, you're accepting what your mind comes with
(on it's own) and what other people tell you... now wonder you don't get what you want!
I've analyzed people who try to do everything they can to be successful and happy (but just aren't getting anywhere).
After examining their thoughts and beliefs I find
what they think and believe is the exact opposite
of what they want to achieve. Sure they want to be successful but they really don't have any thoughts or beliefs that allow them to succeed, be happy or be wealthy.
What ever you want to achieve you can if you have a belief system that allows you to succeed.
If you want to make more money you have to have a belief system that says you can make more money.
If you want to meet the right person you have to believe
that you can meet the right person.
If you want to succeed at something you have to believe that you can succeed.
So how do you create beliefs that correspond with what you want to accomplish?
First think about what you want to achieve.
Then ask yourself if you really believe that you can accomplish this particular goal.
If you don't believe you can there's work to do and you're going to have to change your belief system so that it allows you to succeed.
To change your belief system you have to analyze your thoughts and list all the thoughts and beliefs that you have about achieving that goal.
For example: if you want to make more money but you're not making the kind of money you want then list why you don't think you can make more money.
Now change those thoughts to correspond with what you want.
These are your new thoughts, statements or affirmations that you should think and recite through out the day.
Replace those limiting thoughts with these new thoughts.
If you want to achieve success and happiness then you have to create thoughts and beliefs that will allow you to achieve those goals.
Begin changing your thoughts.
Begin creating beliefs that work for you.
Eliminate the negative thoughts and beliefs.
Start creating the life you want today.
Once you get started things get easier.
As you do what I just outlined everyday you'll begin
to direct your mind and subconscious mind to create
more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
So take charge of your mind.
Control your thoughts.
Create beliefs that allow you to succeed.
Don't let your mind run on autopilot.
Don't let others instill their negative, limiting
beliefs on you.
You are in charge and you can do anything you want...
when you direct your mind and subconscious mind. Start today
and then of course, PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT AND WATCH YOURSELF SOAR............................TO NEW HEIGHTS!!!
"We all need a daily check up from the neck up to to avoid 'stinkin thinkin' which ultimately leads to hardening of the attitudes." Zig Zigler
Thursday, September 23, 2010
20 Different Fun Ways To Kiss
| 1. The French Kiss Probably the most famous kiss there is, the French kiss is an open-mouthed kiss where one person’s tongue touches the other person’s tongue. Also called a “tongue kiss,” the French kiss easy enough to execute, but it can take years to master. 2. The Butterfly Kiss To give someone a butterfly kiss, get close to them so the tips of your eyelashes are touching theirs. Then blink very fast so your eyelashes flutter together like butterfly wings. It’s a fun, cute thing to do while you’re catching your breath from more traditional kisses. You can also give someone a solo butterfly kiss by fluttering your eyelids against their cheek. 3. The Single-Lip Kiss To give someone a single-lip kiss, take one of their lips between yours and gently suck or tug on it. It’s an awfully romantic kiss, and if you do it right, you’ll send tingles up and down your sweetie’s spine. 4. The Spiderman Kiss Based on the kiss in the 2002 movie Spider-Man, the Spiderman kiss involves kissing someone whose face is upside-down from yours, so your top lip kisses their bottom lip and vice versa. 5. The Earlobe Kiss A great kiss to to perform while you’re taking a break from lip kisses, the earlobe kiss involves taking someone’s earlobe lightly between your lips and tugging gently downward. For a more intense earlobe kiss, add a little bit of tongue, or use a gentle sucking motion on their earlobe. 6. The Lip Gloss Kiss This is a fun, flirty kiss for girlfriends to give their boyfriends. Put on a healthy amount of lip gloss or ChapStick, then rub your lips on your partners’ lips until theirs are coated, too. For extra fun, surprise your partner with a sweet, fruity lip gloss flavor. 7. The Eskimo Kiss In an Eskimo kiss, two people rub their noses back and forth against each other. It’s based on real kisses that people in Eskimo cultures give their friends. Just like with lip kisses, Eskimo kisses are best executed with your eyes closed. 8. The Cheek Kiss The cheek kiss is exactly what it sounds like – a closed-mouth kiss against someone’s cheek. Cheek kisses can be used as friendly greetings, flirty thank-you’s or cute, unexpected ways to say good-bye to your boyfriend or girlfriend. 9. The Hickey A hickey technically isn’t a kiss; it’s a red mark (a bruise, really) left on the skin after someone sucks hard enough on it. Hickeys hurt a little to get, but some people think the sucking feels good, especially on the side of the neck. It can be embarrassing to walk around with a hickey, so before you start sucking, get permission first. 10. The Secret Message Kiss In the middle of a French kiss, spell out a secret message with the tip of your tongue against their tongue. It might feel a little funny to the other person, but at least you’ll be getting your message across. 11. The Vampire Kiss The vampire kiss is a deep kiss on someone’s neck that can involve sucking or light biting on the skin. Since some people find it painful rather than sexy, and since the sucking might leave a hickey, always ask permission before you give someone a vampire kiss. 12. The Wet Kiss Wet kisses are any open-mouthed kisses, with or without tongue. A little bit of wetness during a kiss can be sexy, but try not to overdo it: too much saliva is sloppy. Alternate between wet kisses and closed-mouth kisses and single-lip kisses, and be sure to swallow occasionally so you don’t accidentally drool all over your partner. 13. The Lizard Kiss The lizard kiss involves flicking your tongue in and out of your partner’s mouth in tight, quick strokes (picture the way a lizard moves its tongue). This is a silly kiss you can try just for fun, but it generally should be avoided because it feels kind of creepy to get. 14. The Air Kiss The air kiss is a sophisticated gesture you can use as a greeting to your friends and relatives. To give one, rest your cheek against their cheek and make a kissing sound with your lips. 15. The Biting Kiss The biting kiss is a more aggressive form of the French kiss. Like the French kiss, it’s open-mouthed and incorporates tongue, but as you pull back, your teeth lightly grab onto your sweetie’s tongue for just a second. Try it once and see how your partner responds. Some people love it, but others think it’s painful or weird. 16. The Angel Kiss To give someone an angel kiss, kiss them very gently on their eyelids or on the spot right next to their eye, using just your lips. It’s a very romantic way to wake someone up or say goodbye. 17. The Neck Kiss After French kissing for a while, some people mix it up by trailing their mouth down and “Frenching” the other person’s neck. To execute a neck kiss perfectly, go light on the saliva, focus on the motion of your lips, never stay in once place for very long and never suck hard enough to leave a hickey. 18. The Jawline Kiss To plant a jawline kiss on someone, give them a firm kiss on the bottom of their jaw, right where their face meets their neck. If they respond well to it, make a path of jawline kisses up to their ear and give them an earlobe kiss. 19. The Breath Kiss The breath kiss is a fun, silly kiss that’s almost more of a game than a kiss. To do it, open your mouth, inhale deeply and lock lips with your sweetie (like you’re performing CPR). Slowly exhale into their mouth while they’re inhaling, “passing” the breath to them. Without moving, slowly inhale while your partner exhales. Keep passing the breath back and forth until one of you runs out of breath or you both erupt in giggles. 20. The Love Kiss Finally, the love kiss is any kiss that you give while thinking tender, loving thoughts about your partner. You might not realize it, but your kissing style can be influenced by whatever’s on your mind. Smooching with love on your mind will make your kisses extra soft and sweet. Whether it’s on your partner’s mouth, neck, ear or forehead, the love kiss is the most romantic kiss you can give. |
To make all of these different kisses more fun and tasty, try some of my edible products to tantalize your taste buds and add even more pleasure to the tongue play!
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Passionate Wishes,
christine
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
Last day to recognize May as National Masturbation Month
In women, did you know that orgasms during masturbation help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles? This can lead to more pleasurable intense orgasms during intercourse.
Masturbation also helps you find what pleasures you and you can communicate that to your partner and experience even greater sex between the two of you. Masturbating and having orgasms on a daily is basis is very healthy and has alot of great benefits to your overall health and well-being. I have talked alot about these benefits in my other blogs while going through the Passion Diva Principles and while discussing and sharing other cool sex facts with you.
Masturbation on a daily basis can also help boost a low libido. It can help you get back 'in the mood' and want to have some fun in the sack again with your partner.
What about masturbation as part of foreplay? How about getting your engine running hot and heavy with a little solo play right before jumping on the full act.
There are lots of different ways that masturbation is fun, healthy and very beneficial to you and your awesome sex life.
Leave me some comments, letting me know what you think about this topic. I hope that you all had a fun and fulfilling National Masturbation Month in May!!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
cool sex fact
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Friday, May 21, 2010
Passion Diva Principle #2
You and your partner have to like each other, respect each other and genuinely want to create greater intimacy and passion. If this is all pu together between you two, then you have the best chances in the world, to turn your good sex into GREAT sex. You have to listen to your partner and let your inner passion diva guide you. Communication is key in addition to respect and like. If you follow these guides, there are so many opportunities to find your soul mate in your partner.
Pick up your own copy of Passion Parties Guide To Great Sex on my website, http://sweetandsinful.yourpassionconsultant.com to learn more about finding/making your soul mate!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Diva Principle #1
SEX IS GOOD FOR YOU
"Good sex is good for you." There are several reasons why sex is so beneficial to us. It helps us relieve stress, balance our hormones, it slows the aging process (yes! it's true!) not only all of that, but good sex just makes you feel good about yourself!!
Lets talk about the anti-aging effects sex has first. During sex, your body releases a hormone called DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone) DHEA is then converted into other hormones that your body needs, helping to control major things like, fat control, stress relief and depression. DHEA also does many other great things for your body, but you'll have to get the book to learn all of that fun stuff. ;0)
Sex is a major stress reliever...I've already said this many times, but it is so true. A good orgasm helps improve the entire circulatory system that goes to your brain! It releases more oxygen into your blood, which then helps get rid of the waste and junk that makes you feel fatigued and uncomfortable....
Sex is the best sleeping pill. Good sex and orgasms help you become more relaxed an more comfortable and we just learned it releases more oxygen to your brain to help it clean itself out, so before you try to pop that sleeping pill, try a little sex play first and then feel yourself relax into a great nights sleep waking feeling very rested and satisfied....
We also learned that sex is a hormone booster and a pain reliever, due to the chemicals and hormones and oxygen that are released and produced during sex play and during an orgasm. Sex is nature's own 'feel good' vitamin for everything that ails you. It helps boost your immune system and releases endorphins that can help fight depression as well. Plus, we all know, its great exercise that is so much fun!!
Life is too short not to have an orgasm everyday. It's just like taking your multi vitamins every morning. and your body produces just what it needs to help you maintain a healthy body...both for men and women. So next time your feeling a little down stressed out, can't sleep or feel those icky sick symptoms coming, try a little sex play (either solo or with a partner) and see how great it makes you feel afterwards!!
The Passion Diva Principles and Book Giveaway
This book gives many new ideas on different tip, and tricks to help add sizzle to any relationship and also helps educate women on their own sensuality and 'free-ing their own passion diva from with in'.
I have read this book 3 times now and everytime that I read it, I always learn something new, something fun and adventurous. It is packed with so many great tips on how to build a GREAT sex life built on strong intimacy that comes from strong communication. Communication not only with a partner, but also with yourself and your inner diva. I have learned that it is very very important to listen what your body wants and learn how to make yourself happy. Pamper yourself, reward yourself and pleasure yourself. Because, after all, if you take the time out to do that for you, you are going to be OOOhh so much happier (yes, pun intended, hehehe).
Spoil yourself everytnow and then with a luxurious spa product in the shower or the tub, reeward yourself with something new and nice or something that you have been wanting to by for a while, bt maybe felt selfish doing it, DO IT!!
One thing I love to do that always makes me feel good is tanning. I love to spend 10 mintes in the tanning bed once a week or every week and a half or so, just to make me feel good about me. It's my diva time. (not to mention it;s also very therapeutic for my fibromyalgia and helps me relax and release pain) Find one thing that makes you feel good and reward yourself with it. You will be so happy and thankful you did and your confidence will soar.
So, based on that, "The Passion Parties Guide To Great Sex" is all about enhancing your life in the love, romance and sexual department. There are sexy anatomy lessons for him and her and many fun and adventurous tips and tricks and great advice that will have you begging for more and oh so happy that you took the time to invest in you.
I highly reccommend getting this book. (100% of the proceeds from the book go to the Passion Parties Charitable Foundations Fund, which include, among many others, The Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Research Foundation, Autism Speaks and the Muscular Dystrophy Association.)
In fact, I want everyone to have a chance to read it, I am going to be giving away 2 copies of this book. There are a couple of ways that you can get entered into this drawing. Contest ends on 5/31.
To enter the drawing to win "The Passion Parties Guide To Great Sex" by Pat Davis, you can do any/all of the following:
1. Join Sweet and Sinful on Facebook, post "Great Sex Giveaway" on the wall
2. Follow Sweetand Sinful on Twitter and RT my giveaway (one tweet per day) RT@sweetandsinful Passion Parties Guide To Great Sex Book Giveaway ends 5/31 http://tinyurl.com/24y73xn
3. Subscribe to my blog and leave a comment for me
4. Place an order online and receive 2 entries for every $25 you spend. http://sweetandsinful.yourpassionconsultant.com
Thanks for reading, good luck and happy posting!!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Test your solo-sex smarts
Fact or Fiction?
-Sexual intercourse feels better than masturbation
False. Pleasure-inducing hormones known as 'endorphines' are released into your system during all types of sexual activity, the pleasure level varies and can be just as strong, or stronger, during masturbation.
-Masturbation leads to less enjoyment of sex with a partner
False. Masturbation helps you discover your 'hot spots'. Many women pass this knowledge on to their partner and in doing so experience better sex. In addition, solo-foreplay can enhance arousal and leads to stronger and more frequent orgasms during sex.
-Solo pleasure is not uncommon for seniors
True. adults may masturbate well into their post retirement days. Resent surveys showed that nearly half of adults over the age of 60 have masturbated at least once during their golden years and one-fifth of seniors masturbate once a week or more.
-The benefits of masturbation are purely sexual
False. Masturbation can help you sleep better, releive cramps, build self-esteem, lower stress and anxiety and much more.
Bet you didn't know that....
-masturbation can strengthen your pelvic floor muscles
-women in relationships are more likely to use vibrators than women who are single
-over half of married women masturbate, according to a recent study
-australia has the highest vibrator use
-india has the lowest vibrator use
-over 90% of women have masturbated at least once.
Well there you have it, just some fun sensual info for you. Enjoy.
If you wnat to read more about National Masturbation month, you can check out this article, just got to www.empowher.com and look up May is National Masturbation Month.