These are some great excerpts I have taken from 'Love Life For Every Married Couple' by Ed Wheat, MD. I hope that you all enjoy them and find them as insightful as I have. Enjoy....
I believe that these excerpts tie into my consultations on sensual education and romance enhancement, after all, isn't that what romance enhancement is all about in certain cases, falling in love or falling in love again with your partner and rekindling the passion and romance you both once felt for one another?
Anyways, here goes....hope some of you find some helpful information in here and I can/will reccommend products to assist in various ways to correspond to each blog post I make with each excerpt.
"I want you to carefully consider the underlying assumptions that govern your attitudes toward marriage and love. Some may be false; some may be true. It is essential for you to determine which premises are correct, which are worth building on, and which concepts should be discarded because they are false and therefore unworkable, even potentially harmful."
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Daily Food For Thought
You've probably heard that old saying:
"If you put your mind to something you can achieve it."
But no one tells you how to put your mind to something so that you succeed.
Yes you can achieve anything if you instruct your mind and subconscious mind properly.
But if you don't know how to do this you'll end up
directing your subconscious mind to create more of
what you don't want - not something you want to do.
How can you stop creating what you don't want and get your mind and subconscious mind to actually work for you?
I'll show you... read on and enjoy
You probably don't regularly choose your thoughts,
or instruct your subconscious mind.
Instead, your mind and subconscious mind are probably working on autopilot - just doing what they want when they want with no clear instructions.
You're probably not even aware of the thoughts you have everyday, and you probably didn't choose the beliefs you hold.
As a result your mind is constantly sending the
wrong messages or wrong instructions to you subconscious mind. And that's how you end up failing or not getting what you want.
I know you want to be successful, wealthy and happy...
but do a thought checkup... and you'll find that you
probably have thoughts and beliefs that don't allow you
to be successful, wealthy, happy or enjoy the kind
of life you want.
If your mind is on autopilot (like most people) then
you're not actively choosing your thoughts and beliefs.
Instead, you're accepting what your mind comes with
(on it's own) and what other people tell you... now wonder you don't get what you want!
I've analyzed people who try to do everything they can to be successful and happy (but just aren't getting anywhere).
After examining their thoughts and beliefs I find
what they think and believe is the exact opposite
of what they want to achieve. Sure they want to be successful but they really don't have any thoughts or beliefs that allow them to succeed, be happy or be wealthy.
What ever you want to achieve you can if you have a belief system that allows you to succeed.
If you want to make more money you have to have a belief system that says you can make more money.
If you want to meet the right person you have to believe
that you can meet the right person.
If you want to succeed at something you have to believe that you can succeed.
So how do you create beliefs that correspond with what you want to accomplish?
First think about what you want to achieve.
Then ask yourself if you really believe that you can accomplish this particular goal.
If you don't believe you can there's work to do and you're going to have to change your belief system so that it allows you to succeed.
To change your belief system you have to analyze your thoughts and list all the thoughts and beliefs that you have about achieving that goal.
For example: if you want to make more money but you're not making the kind of money you want then list why you don't think you can make more money.
Now change those thoughts to correspond with what you want.
These are your new thoughts, statements or affirmations that you should think and recite through out the day.
Replace those limiting thoughts with these new thoughts.
If you want to achieve success and happiness then you have to create thoughts and beliefs that will allow you to achieve those goals.
Begin changing your thoughts.
Begin creating beliefs that work for you.
Eliminate the negative thoughts and beliefs.
Start creating the life you want today.
Once you get started things get easier.
As you do what I just outlined everyday you'll begin
to direct your mind and subconscious mind to create
more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
So take charge of your mind.
Control your thoughts.
Create beliefs that allow you to succeed.
Don't let your mind run on autopilot.
Don't let others instill their negative, limiting
beliefs on you.
You are in charge and you can do anything you want...
when you direct your mind and subconscious mind. Start today
and then of course, PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT AND WATCH YOURSELF SOAR............................TO NEW HEIGHTS!!!
"We all need a daily check up from the neck up to to avoid 'stinkin thinkin' which ultimately leads to hardening of the attitudes." Zig Zigler
"If you put your mind to something you can achieve it."
But no one tells you how to put your mind to something so that you succeed.
Yes you can achieve anything if you instruct your mind and subconscious mind properly.
But if you don't know how to do this you'll end up
directing your subconscious mind to create more of
what you don't want - not something you want to do.
How can you stop creating what you don't want and get your mind and subconscious mind to actually work for you?
I'll show you... read on and enjoy
You probably don't regularly choose your thoughts,
or instruct your subconscious mind.
Instead, your mind and subconscious mind are probably working on autopilot - just doing what they want when they want with no clear instructions.
You're probably not even aware of the thoughts you have everyday, and you probably didn't choose the beliefs you hold.
As a result your mind is constantly sending the
wrong messages or wrong instructions to you subconscious mind. And that's how you end up failing or not getting what you want.
I know you want to be successful, wealthy and happy...
but do a thought checkup... and you'll find that you
probably have thoughts and beliefs that don't allow you
to be successful, wealthy, happy or enjoy the kind
of life you want.
If your mind is on autopilot (like most people) then
you're not actively choosing your thoughts and beliefs.
Instead, you're accepting what your mind comes with
(on it's own) and what other people tell you... now wonder you don't get what you want!
I've analyzed people who try to do everything they can to be successful and happy (but just aren't getting anywhere).
After examining their thoughts and beliefs I find
what they think and believe is the exact opposite
of what they want to achieve. Sure they want to be successful but they really don't have any thoughts or beliefs that allow them to succeed, be happy or be wealthy.
What ever you want to achieve you can if you have a belief system that allows you to succeed.
If you want to make more money you have to have a belief system that says you can make more money.
If you want to meet the right person you have to believe
that you can meet the right person.
If you want to succeed at something you have to believe that you can succeed.
So how do you create beliefs that correspond with what you want to accomplish?
First think about what you want to achieve.
Then ask yourself if you really believe that you can accomplish this particular goal.
If you don't believe you can there's work to do and you're going to have to change your belief system so that it allows you to succeed.
To change your belief system you have to analyze your thoughts and list all the thoughts and beliefs that you have about achieving that goal.
For example: if you want to make more money but you're not making the kind of money you want then list why you don't think you can make more money.
Now change those thoughts to correspond with what you want.
These are your new thoughts, statements or affirmations that you should think and recite through out the day.
Replace those limiting thoughts with these new thoughts.
If you want to achieve success and happiness then you have to create thoughts and beliefs that will allow you to achieve those goals.
Begin changing your thoughts.
Begin creating beliefs that work for you.
Eliminate the negative thoughts and beliefs.
Start creating the life you want today.
Once you get started things get easier.
As you do what I just outlined everyday you'll begin
to direct your mind and subconscious mind to create
more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
So take charge of your mind.
Control your thoughts.
Create beliefs that allow you to succeed.
Don't let your mind run on autopilot.
Don't let others instill their negative, limiting
beliefs on you.
You are in charge and you can do anything you want...
when you direct your mind and subconscious mind. Start today
and then of course, PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT AND WATCH YOURSELF SOAR............................TO NEW HEIGHTS!!!
"We all need a daily check up from the neck up to to avoid 'stinkin thinkin' which ultimately leads to hardening of the attitudes." Zig Zigler
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